Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Birthday wishes to a wonderfull person !!!


I feel today is the most appropriate day to express my feelings towards you ….. I know how much you loved me more than anyone else from the day I came into this world . You bought me all the finest things you can afford. I know you wished to see me as a child prodigy, so you taught me hundreds of English words even before I went to the kinder garden. Each time I brought my progress card home , I knew you felt proud of me. I knew that you didn’t even need it because you had the intuition to guess what the result would be. And every time I demonstrated and proved your confidence you used to reward me with a big chocolate , ofcourse to see me happy.
Our mid-night shows and restaurants were all so memorable. The cream buns that you used to get for me were so yummy. The weekend lunches were all bitter and rude, because those were the only times you forced me into eating food which I dislike. I remember on every weekend you asked me to revise everything explained in class during that week and I used to do it very reluctantly, often scolding you in mind. I remember how you used to prepare me to school and make sure everything on me was so decent and positioned well.
It was you who replaced mum’s absence , by making us feel as if we missed nothing. You never had your food without making me eat. I knew how much care you had taken in everything related to me right from polishing my shoe , pressing my clothes and packing my lunch. It was all because of you that such a big mishap to us, did not have its effects on my studies. You made sure that everything is normal as soon as possible. But I know how much melonchalic your days are without mum. I know how much you miss her presence in every second of your life. I knew you had taken all the affliction alone. I knew that you were careful enough to hide it from all of us.
You managed to maintain aplomb even during the hard times we went through. You seemed to stand up alone through all the troubles we faced, and made sure I was not disturbed or distracted. I knew innerside you were constantly worrying a lot about them. When you understood that I was developing a wrong attitude towards everything , you tried hard correcting it , by giving me short classes , which by the way were not boring. You tried inducing in me , the feeling of love for everyone and everything we have. You always asked me to wipe out the jealous factor . Its you from whom I learnt that we should wish all good to happen to everyone , even those whom we dislike. I have seen the optimism in you and realized how happy one could be being optimistic. I have been observing how much you love everyone, especially your siblings and children, not caring if you would get the same in return or not. Your unconditional love augments your personality. But I wonder why I did not start practising it even till today.

Many a times I denied for what you said and shouted at you . Each time I did that , I regretted for what I had done to a sensitive person like you. But you were never indifferent to me even when I was rude to you. I have enjoyed all the freedom a father can grant his daughter . At times , you have kept your belief and trust on me , even when I was not confident of myself. I knew well the only reason you live is to see me great. Thanks for everything you gave me and sorry for everything I gave you.
May your artless character reward you with all good health. Long live dad.
MANY MORE HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY !!!!

Well begun is half done.
--Aristotle

6 comments:

  1. Ventrukalu Nikka poduchukunnay

    Love U and Ur Blog and Ur Dad.

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  2. Toooooo Good Foxy!!!! :) --- Mani

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  3. hey vijetha,the post is heartfelt and passionate.
    you are fortunate to have such father.
    though at some point in time ,our parents seem to tinker with our life with their excessive love, but the truth may be -it is always a HAPPY ending :)

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  4. hey why did u stop publishing posts.
    Post whatever you feel.You know what my frenZ say that I post serious stuff and asks me to post more happy and mundane stuff.

    I said "Only after I did post anything .I felt,I discovered that what Iam and what I feel(sometimes cribbing about past)".

    So i decided to write more lively stuff.Not because they have asked me to do so;only because I have realised what Iam writing and why Iam writing and what for Iam writing!!

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  5. But the irony is : Iam coming up with a very serious and patriotic topic again :)

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  6. nice one vijetha.....

    Jitendra.

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